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The Spirit Guides' lessons shared here were taught during more than twenty years of friendship with and communication through Patricia Walton, a highly respected spiritual medium and channel.

Though several spirit master teacher guides were channeled, for the sake of simplicity we will call them "Spirit"
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Grief


Spirit:  If you do not work out fears while you are on Earth, you will bring them Home with you, and it is even possible that you will take them with you into your next life… and the next and the next.  Where you work them out most effectively is the Earthplane. People feel many feelings when they are frightened or sad or lose someone they love very much.  On the Earthplane they allow themselves to feel the anger and the guilt.  What they sometimes do not allow themselves to do is to simply feel the sadness without the anger and the guilt.  It is necessary to just be sad for the change and loneliness for the ending of a relationship.  You must work through all the negativity before you can let it go.



The same will happen when your relationships terminate.  If you are aware, you will quickly let go of the negativity.  You will refuse it and hold only the sadness of your temporary separation.  Experience this and weep for it and then move through this and come into the awareness of the beauty of what you created together, of the gift you have given each other.  When you create Love, you are creating more Light and Beauty.  You are actually allowing the godspirit within you to recreate itself.  Creating Love and experiencing Love and then creating more Love is the whole meaning of life.  There is no Joy except in Love, no reason for being except in Love. 



As you create this Love, you experience all of these feelings, and it is quite possible to experience them in the midst of sadness and sorrow, and grief.  The deepest hurt you may ever feel on the physical plane is the loss of a child or a spouse, and yet even then the Love you experience in the midst of your pain will bring you comfort and the Joy of feeling Creator’s Love.



Spirit:  Dear child, in your present incarnation, you do not yet know the pain of intense grief.  This pain is like a great tidal wave that can carry you far out into the water and pull you under the sea unless you are secured.  What aches, what is confused, what is distraught, what suffers, is not physical.



Spirit:  Grief is extremely personal.  No matter how much others love us, they cannot feel our grief.  They can understand and sympathize, but even if they, too, are grieving, they do not feel our grief, but their own.  Grief is always entirely personal.